must / have to (obligation)
The core use: trebuie să + subjunctive. Who must do it is shown by the second verb.
I have to go.
You have to know this.
#30 · Verb
In Romanian, trebui means “must / have to (obligation)”. It’s the #30 most frequently used Romanian word. Below you’ll find how to use it, its forms, real example sentences, and common word pairings.
Romanian's "must", and the 30th most frequent word — but it does not conjugate for person. One form does every job: trebuie să plec, trebuie să pleci, trebuie să plece. The person is carried by the second verb after să, never by trebuie itself. Learn the four shapes trebuie / trebuia / ar trebui / a trebuit and you have the whole verb.
neutralThe core use: trebuie să + subjunctive. Who must do it is shown by the second verb.
I have to go.
You have to know this.
The same form draws a conclusion: "it must be that…". Often trebuie să fie.
He must be home.
It must have been a joke.
With a noun instead of a clause, and the person in the dative: îmi trebuie = "I need". Here alone a plural subject can pull the rare plural trebuie/trebuiesc.
I need help.
What do you need?
The conditional softens obligation into advice — the polite way to tell someone what to do.
You should sleep.
You shouldn't smoke.
Ranked by how often each form shows up in spoken Romanian. The top 2 forms cover about 88% of everyday use — learn these first.
| Tense | eu | tu | el/ea | noi | voi | ei/ele |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Present | trebuie | trebuie | trebuie | trebuie | trebuie | trebuie |
| Imperfect | trebuia | trebuia | trebuia | trebuia | trebuia | trebuia |
| Perfect compus | a trebuit | a trebuit | a trebuit | a trebuit | a trebuit | a trebuit |
| Future | va trebui | va trebui | va trebui | va trebui | va trebui | va trebui |
| Conditional | ar trebui | ar trebui | ar trebui | ar trebui | ar trebui | ar trebui |
| Subjunctive | să trebuiască | să trebuiască | să trebuiască | să trebuiască | să trebuiască | să trebuiască |
Trebuie să merg la muncă.
I have to go to work.
trebuie - trebuie never changes; merg is what says "I". Swap it for mergi and the sentence becomes "you have to go".
Ar trebui să vorbim.
We should talk.
ar trebui - Conditional ar trebui = "should". It is fixed too — never *aș trebui, even with eu.
Trebuia să-mi spui!
You should have told me!
trebuia - The imperfect trebuia + subjunctive is how Romanian says "should have" — a reproach about the past.
A trebuit să aștept două ore.
I had to wait two hours.
a trebuit - Compound past, always 3rd singular a trebuit, whoever the person is.
Îmi trebuie o pauză.
I need a break.
îmi trebuie - The "need" pattern: dative pronoun for the person, the thing needed as subject.
Nu trebuie să vii dacă nu vrei.
You don't have to come if you don't want to.
nu trebuie - Negated, it usually means "no need to" — for a prohibition Romanians prefer nu ai voie ("you're not allowed").
Common phrases built around trebui — worth learning as whole units.
lit. “it-must that”
lit. “it-would-need that”