himself / herself / itself / themselves (direct: se)
Marks the action as turning back on its subject. Third person only — other persons use mă, te, ne, vă.
He/she is washing (himself/herself).
Her name is Ana.
#20 · Pronoun
In Romanian, sine means “himself / herself / itself / themselves (direct: se)”. It’s the #20 most frequently used Romanian word. Below you’ll find how to use it, its forms, real example sentences, and common word pairings.
The Romanian reflexive pronoun. sine is the dictionary headword, but the form you meet everywhere is se — the little word in front of a verb that makes it reflexive: mă numesc, se duce, s-a întâmplat. A large family of everyday verbs simply does not exist without it.
neutralMarks the action as turning back on its subject. Third person only — other persons use mă, te, ne, vă.
He/she is washing (himself/herself).
Her name is Ana.
The indirect reflexive, typically with body parts, possessions, or mental acts.
He washes his hands.
He remembered.
Many verbs are reflexive by nature and never drop se: a se uita (to look), a se gândi (to think), a se întâmpla (to happen).
What happened?
I'm thinking about you.
se + a 3rd-person verb is the standard way to say something without naming who does it.
Romanian is spoken here.
It's not possible.
The full form, used only after prepositions and in fixed abstract phrases.
self-confident
by itself
Ranked by how often each form shows up in spoken Romanian. The top 2 forms cover about 88% of everyday use — learn these first.
| 3rd person direct | se / s- / -se | Se duce, s-a dus, ducându-se. |
|---|---|---|
| 3rd person dative | își / și- / -și | Își ia, și-a luat, luându-și. |
| Stressed form | sine | Only after prepositions: în sine, de la sine. |
| 1st sg. | mă / îmi | mă spăl, îmi amintesc. |
| 2nd sg. | te / îți | te speli, îți amintești. |
| 1st pl. | ne / ne | ne spălăm, ne amintim. |
| 2nd pl. | vă / vă | vă spălați, vă amintiți. |
vs. se vs. își
se is the direct reflexive ("washes himself"), își the indirect ("washes his own hands").
Se spală. / Își spală mâinile.
He's washing. / He's washing his hands.
vs. și- (reflexive) vs. și (and)
Identical spelling. Before a verb it is the reflexive pronoun; between two things it is the conjunction.
Și-a luat pâine și lapte.
He got himself bread and milk.
vs. the passive with a fi
The se-passive is the everyday choice; a fi + participle is heavier and more formal.
Se vinde aici. / Este vândut aici.
It's sold here.
Cum se scrie?
How is it written?
se - Impersonal se — no subject needed; the verb stays 3rd person singular.
S-a dus la piață.
He went to the market.
s- - Before the auxiliary a/am/ai, se contracts to s-. a se duce is reflexive by nature.
Și-a luat cheile.
He took his keys.
și- - Dative reflexive: the keys are his own. Not to be confused with the conjunction și ("and").
Mă simt bine.
I feel good.
mă - In the 1st person the reflexive is mă, not se — se belongs to the 3rd person only.
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What's going on here?
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What's going on?
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What happened?